Multiple collages featuring plus-size Zoom first date outfits.

What the Hell Do I Wear to a Zoom First Date?

Crafting a perfect plus-size first date outfit is definitely an art. The ideal look is equal parts cute, comfortable, and you—which is a hard balance to strike, especially when you’re taking venue into account. But what if your first date venue is Zoom? (Or Skype, or FaceTime, or some other video call platform of your choosing.) How can you make sure your personality shines through via your clothing, when the only clothing your first date partner can really see is from your waist up?

Thankfully, it’s not as complicated as it might initially seem. Putting together the ideal plus-size Zoom first date outfit simply takes a bit of creativity—and the knowledge of what kind of date you might be going on. (Yes, even virtually.) From Zoom picnics (Don’t forget the wine!) to low-key movie nights, your date can be so much more than a quick chat over a webcam.

The best dates are spent enjoying an activity with a partner—whether it be G-rated or otherwise, hehe—and this goes for virtual ones, too. Though you might not know exactly what your Zoom date will entail, you can plan your ensemble based on some pretty basic information. (We love a life hack.)

All you really need to do? Consider the time of day. A mid-afternoon date could easily mean a fun brunch or picnic-themed get-together. Right after work might be the perfect time for a virtual cocktail hour. A late night Zoom could lead to a sexier, romantic date that ends in the bedroom. Just communicate with your potential boo and you’re sure to get some hints on what plus-size Zoom first date outfits might work best.

Of course, it never hurts to have a little inspiration. Keep scrolling for some seriously cute first date outfits practically made for Zoom. Your top half never looked so chic.

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1. For a Virtual Picnic Date

If you can’t meet outside for a real picnic, make your virtual date feel as cute as possible. A black and white plaid dress paired with some fun statement earrings (Fruit-themed is always a winner.) is the perfect way to get that picnic vibe without ever leaving the house. If you don’t want to go barefoot, add some simple black slides to top it all off.

A black and white gingham dress, black slide sandals, and cherry earrings.

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dress — $29.99 from H&M
shoes — $99 from Anthropologie
earrings — $49.99 from

2. For a Casual Zoom Movie Night

If we’ve learned anything, it’s that loungewear is definitely cute enough for a date night. If you and your first date partner are planning on watching a movie together, opt for a unique matching loungewear set paired with the fuzziest of slippers. You’ll look put-together without sacrificing comfort.

A navy sweatshirt with a lightening bolt, navy sweatpants with colorful stars, and multi-color slide slippers.

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sweatshirt — $38.67 from Torrid
joggers — $41.92 from Torrid
slippers — $100 from UGG

3. For a Virtual Cocktail Hour Date

Cheers! Grab your favorite cocktail and hop on that Zoom call, baby. Try a lacy cami (!) and pull-on trousers for an easy and flirty look worthy of any happy hour. Add some mules that feel like slippers if you walk out of frame, too. Oh—and don’t forget a cute phone case. You might get a little tipsy and want to take a virtual selfie.

A green camisole, black pants, cow print phone case, and black mules.

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top — $24.99 from H&M
pants — $38.67 from Torrid
shoes — $69.95 from Nordstrom
phone case — $45 from Casetify

4. For an Artsy DIY Zoom Date

Doing a fun DIY or craft on a first date is underrated. Collaborate with your first date partner and decide on a crafty activity you two can do together virtually—and then dress the part. A utility jumpsuit and blue light glasses are a great start. But the cherry on top of this look is a pair of kitschy, craft-inspired earrings. Go big or go home, folks!

A navy utility jumpsuit, brown sandals, blue light glasses, and glue bottle earrings.

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jumpsuit — $51.67 from Torrid
shoes — $150 from Anthropologie
glasses — $65 from Quay Australia
earrings — $54 from BaubleBar

5. For a Romantic (& Sexy) Virtual Date

If you’re preparing for a late night virtual rendezvous, opt for a lacy bodysuit, classic black skirt, and a candle burning in the background. Add a pair of brightly-colored heels if you think you might be showing your first date partner more than just your upper half. (*wink, wink.*)

A black lace bodysuit, black skirt, pink heels, and a candle.

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bodysuit — $19 from PrettyLittleThing
skirt — $27 from PrettyLittleThing
shoes — $22.40 from ASOS
candle — $35 from Here For the Burn